Sunday, September 02, 2007

And the reason is you

My father's having an affair and he ain't coming back.

My mom's been telling the whole world about it, so I suppose there's no point in hiding it anymore.

But I guess that pretty much explains everything, eh? My sudden preference to not talk about my life anymore, my sudden disinterest in food, my sudden withdrawal from friends, my sudden urge to

Work.

Work.

Work even harder than ever.

I don't want to bitch and I don't seek sympathy, neither do I want outsiders playing judge & jury. I just won't be getting a break anytime soon, no matter how badly I need one. That's all I'd like my mates to understand.

For those who already know, thanks for the support. As for the rest who don't, be thankful about what life has given you. Because everything happens for a reason.

Everything.

20 Comments:

Blogger yellow_monsta said...

*sends a digital hug*

3:33 PM  
Anonymous midnite lily said...

=( *hugs*

3:12 AM  
Blogger Natasha Fernz said...

Hey Davina

Sorry to hear about that. I know exactly how you feel cause I was right where you were not too long ago...

and I know it sucks! And nobody else will understand how it feels. You just have to be strong... Things will look better soon. Trust me...

Big hug from me, and a big kiss from Cleo

11:32 AM  
Anonymous LC said...

*hugs*

you're in my prayers.

10:44 PM  
Anonymous J said...

went through the same situation myself.
it feels like crap and i blame my parents for ruining everything.
then i realized that things happened for a reason.it made me grow up.

*hugs*

1:18 AM  
Blogger Dallas Diaries said...

I like what you said at the very end there.

I know how its like, so I'm right there with you. You will do what you need to do to make yourself get out of it. No one will say anything about it..

love ya D.

9:35 AM  
Anonymous inaesb said...

Rock on! :) The rest is still unwritten..

12:27 PM  
Blogger cyber-red said...

you be strong. sometimes I wonder if I have the cheating gene in me too. hugs

5:32 PM  
Blogger Mochii said...

i like your quote there ... :) and it's so true btw dropping by

11:20 AM  
Anonymous az said...

*hugs*

12:43 AM  
Anonymous Ursula said...

Davina

So sorry to hear what happened in your family :(.
I guess when we grow up..one day we suddenly realize that no family (not even ones one) is perfect.
My perfect family picture (mum and dad) shattered as well not too long ago. Not becoz of cheating...but because of my father trying to kill himself :(. I totally understand that you need some time just for yourself now...but believe me..better days will come.

*Hugs*

Sula

6:06 AM  
Blogger albert said...

Stay strong. *sweaty hug*

12:23 PM  
Blogger mob1900 said...

Dose yourself with work but don't get drown in it or you'll wake up coughing seaweed and find yourself on the Big 30.

7:36 PM  
Anonymous rei said...

Davina - sorry to hear about it.

I don't know what else to say and I don't want to be trite, but really, truly - I'm sorry to hear about it, and I hope things get much much much better.

12:54 PM  
Anonymous crystop said...

hey Davina-Doo -- one day, all this won't hurt anymore. mean time, look up. don't forget to.

9:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

its deeply sad to know what has happened for your family.
Hope you all get over this soon fast.

Never the less,I hope your dad still love his kids to the max just like before.

Cheer up and leave the past behind.
*hugs*
dave(guest@blog hopper)

8:52 AM  
Blogger seth.frostheart said...

damn babe... haven't been here in a while. and this post wasn't something that i want to read.

*long sighs* *hugs*

12:43 PM  
Blogger Jack said...

don't let the incident shadow u.. hang tough..

*hugz*

7:48 PM  
Anonymous Krystle C. said...

Will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong.

*huggles*

2:57 AM  
Blogger Silencers said...

Aw geex, that stings. I bet you've been putting up with insensitive comments for quite a long time already.

Hang in there, kay?

1:42 AM  

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